“We are big company, our furniture is factory built and we have a standard process for everything. We have 10 yrs warranty. Bunch of certifications. All your questions will be answered only after you finalize the deal with us.”
3> The initial quotations had no details, some items were added multiple times. Like they added Bed under payment to LivSpace then mentioned while ordering Bed from third party we will pay the vendor directly.
1> She claimed to have created a design based on our kitchen measurements, but as soon as i pointed they were wrong she panicked and said this was just a sample. (Even the kitchen entry was not on the right wall in her design)
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1> He came prepared, proactively took 3D measurements map from the builder and created a sample design for entire appartment room by room.
Her supervisor immediately started messaging me to finalize the deal or else the discount will no longer be valid (standard pressure tactic)
My 2 hr video call with Local Interior designer.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
2> Over the video call we had elaborated discussion of things required for each room while he shared 3D design screen.
By the end of our 1st call, we asked them to come up with a plan and proper initial quotation which she agreed but later forgot and sent a standard Meeting minutes which didn’t reflect the discussion we had.
This went on for couple of days where They would pressure us to finalize the deal and i would remind them to 1st come up with a plan and quotation.
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For every question i asked she had a standard condescending answer:
Now i will go through experience with LivSpace designer.
Eventually we had our 2nd meeting, she showed me some AI generated pictures of kitchen, she gave me a quote but didn’t give a clear picture of what work would be done. I asked her to share that initial quote so i can review it. Initially she agreed but still didn’t sent it.
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I am currently in a process of finalizing an Interior designer for my new house and was considering LivSpace as one of the option. Eventually i decided to go with a local business instead of LivSpace. I will list down the issue/differences for my decision.
P.S: Their 10 yrs warranty is a joke. Read the warranty terms and conditions on their website. Things like humidity, temperature etc will also nullify warranty. So basically if you use your furniture, warranty is gone.
I would not call LivSpace reliable instead i would call them unethical bunch of college fresher who don’t listen to you and just paste replies from standard replies documents.
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2> For room design she had only a TV mounted on the wall with floating desk.
3> Within 3 days of meeting, he gave me a detail quotation based on our Initial design. (Even though this is initial quotation we got a clear view of what we are getting in that budget.)
5> At one point she even asked us to share the design which was shared to us by the local Interior designer (Unethical practice)
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4> During our meetings she was going through the standard SOP documents and pasting same messages to other clients WhatsApp group as well.
